I guess everyone has thought of what love is.. but couldnt get an exact answer no matter how much you think about it or how many pple you consult. Hmm.. so wad is love?? Heh.. Let me enlighten you beh!!
Now, in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer to that question is no, then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything with them. You have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling. You feel like, with a little bit of effort, you can see what they are seeing and think what they are thinking. It is almost as if you both can occupy each other's bodies with complete trust and harmony. That to me is love. Basically, the question of whether or not you are in love with someone is pretty cut and dry: you either are or you aren't… and deep down, you know the answer. You just have to trust yourself to recognize it.
Agree??? Haha ok ok.. obviously that previous paragraph wasnt from me.. Adapted from a website actually.. But it sounds so true to me.. totally agree with it man..
Was too bored at work so went to google about valentine's day stuff.. and came across this very interesting website which the above paragraph was taken from! The website has lots lots of stuff regarding love and relationships and ideas.. enough to keep me occupied for the whole day and i think at least for another few more days. hahah.. Check this out when you are free!
http://www.lovingyou.com
Even the name of the website sounds so sweet.. isn't it?
Hmm.. shall end this post with a super sweet song too! Came across this old song by Liang Jingru during the KTV session some time ago.. super nice laaaaa...
爱你等于拥有一片天空
任何风吹草动都有你存在其中
自然而然的轻松
一路到 夏天的尾声
无所谓 到过于激动
我们有笑容 我们曾心动
不再是 无动于衷
无条件为你 不顾明天的安稳
为你变坚强 相信你的眼神
不敢想 不敢问
有一天坏的可能
无条件为你 放弃单独的旅程
为你坚强 就不怕牺牲
我的灵魂 如此沸腾
为我爱的人
喜欢复杂还是 习惯单纯
我愿尽力完成 你在我心中几分
难以形容的责任
爱一个人 付出才会完整
无条件 越爱就越深
永远不分 啊
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